Embrace love,

one sprint at a time.

Relationship coaching with an Agile touch.

Welcome to Love is Agile!

For many of us, the most meaningful part of life is the relationship we build over the years with our partners. And yet, we tend to assume that love takes care of itself naturally. But that's not how the story goes, right? Too often we get caught up in work and other daily obligations, and we start losing touch with our favorite human being. We all fall into that trap. ​

Consider the following: what if we started looking at our love relationship as a project on which we work together? What if we took many of the principles we use at work and applied them with our partners?

Work projects have shared goals and tasks, divided responsibilities, and regular check-ins. In our jobs, we talk about what we need from others in order to meet our common goals. We give feedback, we learn together, we accept our mistakes. In the face of change, we find new resources, pivot and thrive.

I believe all of this can be applied in a romantic partnership to create that beautiful connection we're all striving toward, and I want to share this with you.

"Love is an action even more than a feeling. It requires intention and attention, a practice we call attunement. [...] Make dedicated, nonnegotiable time for each other a priority, and never stop being curious about your partner."

— John Gottman

Hi, I’m Diana,

nice to meet you!

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Diana Palfi

Relationship Coach

I am a relationship coach that works with individuals in couples, as well as singles that are looking for a healthy and fulfilling relationship. I can offer valuable guidance and support, to help facilitate personal growth within the context of your partnership or to embark on the dating journey with a better understanding of your needs and desires. 

I have always had a special interest in romantic relationships, both academically and through personal experience. Over time, I realized the importance of being intentional in seeking a life partner and nurturing the relationship. It became clear that supporting others in their journey towards fulfilling relationships and growth with their partners would be personally fulfilling for me. And I found a fun way to do it, through the concept of “Love is Agile”.

Why Love is Agile

All our lives we've known that love comes naturally, that it should be easy, if only done with the right person. Unfortunately, this is a myth that usually leads to unrealistic expectations, causing us to drift apart from the person we have near us. Instead, we can take a more proactive approach towards each other, bringing the relationship to levels of shared fulfillment that only constant and careful tending to our needs could make possible.

Agile is a dynamic and adaptive approach commonly used in project management, but its principles can also be leveraged to foster personal growth and development. By embracing Agile concepts such as flexibility, continuous improvement, and regular feedback, it’s possible to nurture a relationship that thrives in the face of challenges. 

Agile encourages open communication, collaboration, and quick adaptation, enabling couples to evolve together and address issues as they arise.

Coaching Services

For singles and individuals in relationships

What clients say

  • "Diana was there for me in a time of my life that lacked clarity and helped me to focus in order to achieve a bit more of the said clarity."

  • "She was kind and compassionate and a very good listener. The ideas I got from her proved to be useful and she always encouraged kindness and compassion from my side too towards the people in my life."

  • "I felt like I was being hand-held towards learning to see things differently, in a more rational manner while at the same time taking into consideration the emotional side of things."

  • "She encouraged me to write in order to put some order in the streams of thoughts that were overwhelming me, and this is a habit I still keep and find useful. I am super-grateful for having had her in my life at that point."

  • "Diana has been my coach during my hop-on hop-off relationship ride. She listened and held a very inclusive space for me."

  • "I could openly talk about intimate themes and I was touched by her humbleness and lack of any kind of pressure - the final question of the sessions was How do you feel it helped?“